Maybe things were going well til the making out part, then they realized you weren't good enough at it to warrant a second date.In other words, something you are doing physically is a deal killer. Things have definitely improved - I guess I just hit a rough patch and was maybe getting in my own head a bit.Without going into a ton of details, I'd say that I have at times felt that dating was like shooting fish in a barrel.When I was single down south I'd use a mixture of social networking, match.com, etc to meet girls and at times my dance card was about as full as it could possibly be.That means just having a fun date, hitting it off to the extent that there will be a makeout session in a hotel elevator or one party's car, and then that's it. I've never had a drought like this in my life, and I'm better off financially, fitnesswise, etc. Again - I realize that this thread could come off as sexist or piggish and I apologize. I'm so puzzled as to why this keeps happening and I really want to see if anybody else has an opinion on this?I can admit when I'm dating up and have no problem when that girl cuts things off. Lose the provincial expectations and while you're at it, lose that indulgent little ranking system.Last week for example I went on a date with a girl who was in my league - I'd rank myself as a tiny bit more eligible than her in looks, fitness, career, education, etc. We hit it off, we changed venues 4 times, we made out several times throughout the night, she ended the night at my condo where we made out on my bed. This scenario has happened (similar positive date w/ makeout, etc) THREE TIMES in 2012 and it's driving me crazy.I didn't push things past that because it was such a no-brainer that we'd see each other again so I was happy to wait. I know that a lot of guys blow girls off after having a one-night stand but why do girls blow guys off after simply making out? My piggish theory is that the women in Milwaukee aren't as attractive collectively as the women from my large hometown in the South, and therefore girls who are 7's can get away with acting like 9's because they just don't have much competition. After all this rant, I will say that I do often see pretty girls with good looking guys and I'm sure at some point I will find the right match for me, but I'm getting very frustrated.
That means just having a fun date, hitting it off to the extent that there will be a makeout session in a hotel elevator or one party's car, and then that's it. I've never had a drought like this in my life, and I'm better off financially, fitnesswise, etc. Again - I realize that this thread could come off as sexist or piggish and I apologize. I'm so puzzled as to why this keeps happening and I really want to see if anybody else has an opinion on this? Just an echo here of the previous posts: try to transcend the ranking mentality and the idea of "leagues." It's important for people to connect with people they're physically attracted to, but it takes more than that to have a lasting relationship.Upon successful registration we will email you a confirmation with the event details.For questions about the Event email Karen, your Milwaukee Pre-Dating Speed Dating Coordinator or to register by phone call 414-377-2524.even when dressed up, there's often a sense of trashiness, and the steady diet of fried-everything and sweet tea isn't exactly flattering in the long run. They're not all 10's, but there are lots of blue-collar, yet dang-near super-model types around here. If I were single in Milwaukee, I'd think I'd hit the jackpot. The late 20's and 30-40-somethings on average are in vastly better shape than their southern counterparts. Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. Over ,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum.